"We used the word "family" but we didn't feel it."
I was in the middle of a conversation with a friend, when suddenly I realized we've spent years working together yet we didn't know each other as if we were family.
The main point of joining a community is supposed to be making new friends, creating good relationships, and knowing people around you as much as you can. But here we are, trapped in a system that make us focus on projects with our own ego, instead of gaining the main point.
In the end, we didn't get the joy of getting new friends.
We created hate and disunity behind.
And I refuse to go with the system. The hate and discomfort, I convince myself that those are not my goals. I want to make friends, a lot of them. And ego wouldn't help me.
Yes, sometimes people disappointed us, I felt them too. However, it's not worth to make it everlasting because I am so sure the disappointment came from working together for some projects that couldn't even define the real us.
I decided to stop the system and fix things that already happened.
Shut your ego and start to know each other.
